So even though I have all the correct ports open etc, I have ALWAYS struggled slightly with con issues. That said, reconnecting 1 or 2 times fixed that. Annoying but meh.
Since the last patch this happens;
First, the usual BS, to be expected -

Then, I seem to connect to everyone, but some people in the lobby disappear (even though they are still there) - This is a new problem that has not happenned before.

Then exiting the lobby finally brings this pop-up -

I know I am not alone in having connection problems even though the correct router ports are open, and until now its been bareable. But being in a lobby and not being able to see whos in what seat, pings and whether I am connected or not makes the game practically unplayable.
Help appreciated.